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Across Surrey, Hampshire, and Oxfordshire

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Three extraordinary wedding venues, each with its own story to tell. Privately run and exclusively yours, our venues in Surrey, Hampshire and Buckinghamshire offer the perfect English countryside setting for your special day. Each one ready to be discovered with a private tour.

With over 25 years’ of experience, we bring together award-winning planning, beautiful surroundings and restaurant quality dining to create extraordinary one-of-a-kind wedding celebrations for each of our couples.

Start your journey with confidence — request our brochure for full details, pricing and inspiration.

Which wedding house will you fall for?

An utterly spectacular wedding venue in Surrey

The grand Surrey mansion with a mysterious royal past. Botleys Mansion sits within 56 acres of rolling parkland, just 30 minutes from London, yet a world away.

With space for 50 to 288 for your ceremony, and up to 500 for your evening reception, Botleys Mansion is a spectacular wedding venue choice in Surrey — and it’s entirely yours.

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A heavenly Hampshire barn-style wedding venue

A romantic Tudor barn-style wedding house on the edge of the South Downs, Cain Manor is filled with rustic charm, character and sweeping countryside views of the Surrey Hills.

With space for up to 123 for your ceremony and 200 for your evening reception, this wedding reception venue in Hampshire is intimate, atmospheric, and exclusively yours.

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A truly historic wedding venue in Buckinghamshire

The honey-hued hideaway once home to Hollywood golden-age icons Laurence Olivier and Vivien Leigh, Notley Abbey is a breathtaking venue on the Oxfordshire Buckinghamshire border.

Set at the end of a private tree-lined drive, with space from 50 to 164 for your ceremony and up to 250 for your evening reception, it’s a place where historic beauty meets modern celebration. This is the crème-de-la-crème of both Oxfordshire and Buckinghamshire wedding venues.

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Caroline & Stuart
Notley Abbey, Buckinghamshire

Thank you to all at Notley Abbey - the day was perfect, and you were all amazing in helping us to have the most perfect day! We enjoyed every moment and were well looked after. All our guests have been so complimentary about the staff and the venue - it's all been amazing!

28.06.2025

Niamh & Dominic
Botleys Mansion, Surrey

Thank you so so much we had an amazing day. A big special thanks to Sarah who was incredible. She looked after me the whole day, making sure we had drinks and food when we were taking photos so we didn't miss out. Just incredible and the day and night managers were unbelievable as well.

05.07.2025

Bethany & David
Cain Manor, Hampshire

We want to say a huge thank you for our wedding day. From the first time we visited Cain Manor, we couldn't have imagined getting married anywhere else. The venue was stunning and the team made us feel welcome immediately. Nothing was too much trouble and your experience ensured everything went smoothly and we could just relax and enjoy the day. We had so many compliments about the food, venue and staff. Thank you for everything!

23.05.2025

Kiana & Rufus
Notley Abbey, Buckinghamshire

We had the absolute best time at our wedding and several of our guests said it was the best wedding ever!! From pre-planning, to getting ready, to making sure we were where we needed to be, the Notley team did a phenomenal job. Could not be
happier with Notley and the team. Thank you for making our dreams come true!

11.07.2025

Amy & Neil
Botleys Mansion, Surrey

Thank you to the whole team for what was an incredible, unforgettable wedding day. Our expectations were surpassed and we've had so many compliments on the occasion, the venue and the food from our guests. Also, Esther on the day was excellent - very efficient, calming and organised.

28.06.2025

THE BEST OF TIMES

At Harper Weddings, we’ve been creating incredible wedding days for our couples for 25 years. The best celebrations happen when everything flows perfectly – from the champagne to the speeches to the dancing, in extraordinary country house settings with the people you love.

Each exclusive wedding venue is yours entirely. Surrounded by your nearest and dearest, you have complete privacy, your own timeline, and every space to yourselves. Just you, your loved ones, and all the time you need to celebrate properly.

Your day, your way

Wedding planning should feel exciting, not exhausting. With your own dedicated wedding planner and a personal online portal available 24/7, we handle the logistics while you focus on the fun – it’s what we’re here for. 

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Food of style and substance

Lionel, our Executive Chef, brings his experience from The Dorchester to create wedding menus worth celebrating – from canapés during the drinks reception to your three-course wedding breakfast, evening food when the dancing starts, and breakfast the morning after. 

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Cain Manor Suite for newlyweds
Botleys Mansion Suite for newlyweds
Notley Abbey Suite for newlyweds
Cain Manor Laurent Perrier
Notley Suite dressing table

Accommodation

Each of our wedding venues comes with beautiful bedrooms for you and your nearest and dearest to stay the night. From elegant suites to charming guest rooms, every space has been thoughtfully curated with comfort, character and luxury in mind — the perfect retreat after a day of celebration.

The next morning, as the house comes gently back to life, gather for a relaxed breakfast, share stories from the day before, and savour those final moments together.
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Harper Partners

Great weddings need great people. Our Harper Partners are a handpicked collection of trusted professionals we know and love — experts who understand our houses, share our standards and consistently deliver exceptional experiences. They are the people we’d choose for our own celebrations.

Whether you’re looking for creative inspiration or prefer a seamless planning experience, our partners are here to support you. Of course, if you have your own suppliers in mind, you’re always welcome to bring your own vision to life.
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Wedding Blog

Looking for inspiration? From timelines and styling ideas to food and guest experience, we’ve created a collection of expert advice, inspiration and practical guides to help you every step of the way.
Whether you’re just starting out or refining the details, discover our home of inspiration.
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Real Weddings

Every wedding we host is beautifully unique, thoughtfully designed to reflect each couple’s story. Explore our collection of real weddings to see how our houses in Surrey, Hampshire and Buckinghamshire come to life — from elegant country celebrations to relaxed, contemporary gatherings. Discover styling ideas, seasonal inspiration and unforgettable moments from real couples who have celebrated with us.
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Outside garden ceremony at Notley Abbey near London
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